You have to overcome silly fights in order to maintain the relationship in an effective way.

It becomes much harder to manage the relationship if there are any signs of going bad.

There may be many reasons but you can manage them efficiently.

1. Your partner starts fighting for silly reasons. Picking fights occasionally will not affect the relationship but if it goes beyond then the problem arises.
2. Your partner sends most of the time with his/her friends rather than spending time with you. He/she keeps himself/herself busy all the time and shows least interest in you.
3. Your partner stops sharing his/her feelings with you and gets habituated of keeping things secret. This causes lot of differences in a relationship.

You should believe your partner. If you don’t have the confidence and belief in your partner, then issues of guilt and doubt arises, which may lead even to the breakup of the relationship.

People around you will start pointing out whether everything is going good or not because the mood keeps fluctuating when things are going bad and you cannot concentrate on any issues related to your work or in your personal life.

The things we think about the breakup of a romantic relationship, a fight with a friend, or even about something as miniscule as getting a parking ticket dominates our lives without us ever really recognizing it.

As humans, we have the unique ability to reflect on events and circumstances, and while that is a good thing, it carries with it, a risk– the way we think about things has a profound affect on how we feel.

Negative thinking can adversely impact not only our mood, but our physical health, too.

Therefore, it is imperative to examine what we are thinking and treat our thoughts as mere constructs that we have the power to harness with a little effort.

Analyzing our thoughts is particularly crucial for those of us who have the tendency to be depressed. This is because those of us who suffer from depression regularly form inaccurate thoughts that we convince ourselves are true.

These irrational thoughts, which are repeated over and over again, are known to therapists who practice cognitive behavioral therapy as cognitive distortions.

Mental health professionals disagree on whether cognitive distortions cause depression or whether depression causes cognitive distortions, but it is universally recognized that such patterns of thought make us feel terrible about ourselves.

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